Ruling Planet: Mercury
Ruling House: Third
Spirit Color: Yellow
Lucky Gem: Tiger's Eye & Emerald
Flower: Lavender & Lily of the Valley
Top Love Matches: Aries & Leo
Key Traits: Curious, affectionate, kind
Motto: "I manifest my reality."
Classic (Famous) Geminis: Kendrick Lamar, Azealia Banks, Iggy Azalea, Angelina Jolie, Natalie Portman
Gemini Love Compatibility
Gemini's Love Style
Dynamic, intense, and with so many shifting parts to their personalities, Gemini love to date. Indeed, they consider dating a skill. Gemini are great at drawing first dates out of their shells, and they rarely have a "bad" date-because this optimism-infused sign will always finds something positive about the person they meet or the conversation they shared.
But even though dating is fun, it can be hard for Gemini to take the next step. While the Twins love the idea of love, they're also passionate about their own independence, and they want to make sure that they aren't giving anything up before taking the next step. And while Gemini aren't dishonest, their ruling planet Mercury makes them especially adept at telling others what they want to hear-which some might perceive as leading people on.
Gemini aren't bound by convention. If they find themselves partnering with someone isn't the "type" that their friends or family would have expected, well, Gemini just don't care. Once in love, Gemini aren't afraid to make their own rules (with their partner of course) about what the relationship looks like.
In bed, Gemini is dynamic, intense, and wants to experience as much as possible. Sensation play-think wax and ice-is a welcome try for a Gemini. And of course, the Twins can't resist contrasts, even in bed. Whether they're exploring quickies or all-day lovemaking marathons, taking the lead or being totally passive, or playing around with different roles and sensations during sex, a Gemini is never bored.
Best Zodiac Love Matches for Gemini
Aries: Fiery, intense, and passionate, this fire sign is a lustful match for Gemini-if both signs decide to settle down. Fiercely guarding their independence, these two signs have a live and let live approach that could make their romance unconventional. Honest Aries can help ground Gemini, and the two signs may go through a stormy period before settling into a remarkably stable match for the long haul.
Leo: Proud, passionate, and confident, a Leo will woo a Gemini-only if the Gemini works just as hard to woo the Leo. Both signs appreciate the ritual of romance, and they love dates, flowers, and long, gushing letters. As the relationship progresses, both signs will find an intellectual equal in each other, and they'll discover that they can let their guard down in ways that they rarely do with others.
Libra: This cardinal sign has the ambition to nudge Gemini out of excessive daydreaming. Honest above all else, Libras can help ground Gemini when they seem too flighty. They're also not afraid to call Gemini out when they seem to be playing a part. Libra appreciates all aspects of Gemini's personality, but wants to make sure that they're getting the authentic version. In turn, Gemini can help Libra step away from overanalyzing and into action. Together, these two signs are unstoppable.
Favorite Date Nights for Gemini
Your Gemini may love you, but they also love their friends-and don't make them choose. An ideal night for Gemini begins with a large party with their fifty closest friends, and then a stop at their neighborhood local, where another ten people are likely to greet them. All of these social warm-ups are actually just the thing to pave the way for some undivided one-on-one attention. Gemini don't care about restaurant reviews or what's cool. They want a place where they'll feel welcomed, somewhere that inspires their imagination and creativity. Let them take the lead on date night; they love curating an evening the way a museum curator designs an exhibit, and they love being praised for their imagination. Be sure to keep your energy high: Gemini thrives on action, and a busy night out will most likely mean a busy night between the sheets.
The Deal with Gemini and Water Signs
Gemini are air signs who often find themselves locked in passion-fueled, controversial relationships with water signs (Cancer, Scorpio, or Pisces) that can be incredibly tough to navigate. While Gemini tend to be practical when it comes to their emotions-they can logically analyze why they feel a certain way, or use sheer force of will and their glass-half-full optimism to ignore a negative emotion in favor of happier ones-they often find themselves led by the heart into relationships with water signs.
To Gemini, this is simultaneously captivating and confusing. Gemini drive water signs crazy by trying to understand or explain their feelings away, while water signs get annoyed by Gemini's insistence on trying to explain emotions with logic or intellect. Meanwhile, water signs, which respect honesty and directness, can be exasperated when Gemini constantly shift different sides of their personality to the forefront, which they may see as manipulative.
So can these signs ever be a good match? Yes! Passion brings them together, and communication can connect them for life. But for these matches to work, Gemini need to realize that not everyone sees or experiences the world as they do, and that's okay. Gemini can often put themselves in other people's shoes, thanks to their love of creativity and literature. In this case, though, Gemini shouldn't try to imagine what their water sign lover is thinking. It's best to ask them upfront. By simply listening and not trying to fix things, Gemini can help pave the way to a lifelong love.
How to Seduce a Gemini
Have your heart set on a Gemini? Join the line. While captivating Gemini is a clear crush for many signs, if you want the Twins to actually notice you, you'll need to prove you can keep up and add something of value to their lives. And don't be jealous. Gemini abhor jealousy, so snarky comments or passive-aggressive digs won't be tolerated. Remember, when a Gemini has chosen to spend time with you, you're his or her main focus. Don't blow it. Here are three more ways to make sure that a Gemini loves you back:
Get your culture on. Gemini loves culture and will never say no to tickets for a play or movie. And make sure you have opinions. "I liked it, it was good" won't cut it with Gemini. They want to talk feelings, themes, motifs, and how you would have directed it better.
Be flirty. Gemini loves the thrill of the chase, and even cheesy pickup lines will make this seasoned player crack a smile. They give as good as they get, so witty banter and repartee are essential to hold a Gemini's attention.
Have a plan. While Gemini is fine coming up with an idea on the fly, they're seriously impressed and touched by a date that was planned with creativity and whimsy. You already know that this sign loves parties and socializing, but they'll appreciate a more creative plan than a night at the club-mini golf, a scavenger hunt, or a trip to some specialty restaurant will win you major points with a Gemini.
How to Make Love to a Gemini
Intense and passionate, Gemini wants it all in bed. They want to be caressed and overtaken, cherished and in control.
A Gemini's needs in bed will depend on his or her mood. Learning to read your Gemini lover and anticipate the plan for the evening will be a lifelong lesson that will serve you both well. Gemini don't shy away from dirty talk-they'll tell you what they want and where they want your hands. And you should add your own voice to the mix, too. While Gemini is fine taking the role of director in the bedroom, he or she doesn't want you to be a passive participant.
Roleplay is fun for Gemini, and this sign is also interested in pushing boundaries and trying new things in bed. But before you do, talk about what's going to happen. It may not seem sexy or spontaneous, but knowing that you're both on the same page will free Gemini up to let go like nothing else.
Props in bed can be fun-toys, handcuffs, lube, or flavored condoms appeal to Gemini's whimsical side. Laughter in bed can be a great thing. This sign isn't ashamed of sex, loving and embracing their sexuality as an integral part of their whole self. In that way, Gemini incorporate sexuality in their everyday life, and loves sending suggestive Snaps throughout the day or having a days-long texting fantasy. Stoking the fires 24/7 is key to a satisfying sex life with Gemini.
If You Love a Gemini Woman
Don't overanalyze her. A Gemini woman knows exactly who she is and doesn't appreciate anyone, man or woman, telling her something about her personality. And don't assume that her actions are all about you. A Gemini woman always has a million things on her to-do list, and her lover needs to accept that he or she may not always be first on that list. If you love a Gemini woman, give her space and let her come to you.
How to Communicate With a Gemini Woman
Listen to her. A Gemini woman may seem like she's cycling through different moods, but they likely don't have anything to do with you. If she says she needs space, trust her-don't keep texting her. Likewise, when she says she needs you, she's not pulling a damsel in distress card. She wants you by her side. If her moods are affecting your relationship, you can be the one to bring it up. She may not do it first because Gemini's mercurial nature is her everyday reality. Suggesting concrete ways to fix any communication problems before they start-like vowing to do phone calls instead of texts if one of you starts getting snippy-will go a long way to smoothing over issues before they start.
If You Love a Gemini Man
A Gemini man may seem like he has a million contacts in his phone, but once he says that he's chosen you (and it truly should be a conversation-don't assume signs that you're exclusive just because he invited you to stay over), you have to believe him. Always flirty, a Gemini man may continue harmless flirtation with others even after he's pledged fidelity to you. Let him know exactly what and how it bothers you, but every casual "hi" to someone else isn't a trigger for relationship counseling. And whatever you do, don't snoop through his phone-that's a sure way to get yourself taken out of his contacts.
How to Communicate With a Gemini Man
Pulled in a million different directions, a Gemini man may not want nightly check-ins. That's not because he doesn't love you; he just doesn't see the point. So make the "why" clear, and once he realizes that it's important to you, he'll do what it takes to make you happy. While Gemini can read a room in seconds, it can sometimes be hard for them to tell what their partner is thinking. After all, they're not psychic! It's key to let a Gemini man know your preferred communication status upfront. They'll do their best to oblige you. Finally, passive-aggressive digs can go on forever if you start them with a Gemini-Gemini practically invented the passive-aggressive game. So just avoid it altogether.
Should You Marry a Gemini?
Yes! Creative, dynamic, and intense, a Gemini will lead you on a lifelong learning quest, and the two of you will always be growing and changing together. A Gemini won't settle for complacency, and the two of you will never find yourselves side by side on the couch with nothing to say. The only hiccup with the Zodiac's master communicator is finding the best way to communicate. But once you get past that glitch and learn each other's languages, the two of you will be truly unstoppable.
3 Signs That Gemini is Playing for Keeps
Life of the party Gemini may seem to be flirting with you and every other person you know, but there are ways to tell that they see you as way more than just a friend.
- They get vulnerable. Talking about childhoods, emotional upsets, or even crying a little bit on the couch are all signs that Gemini is getting close. While they're good at drawing others out, they tend to be more reserved-and sharing their quieter side is a sign they're in for keeps.
- They introduce you to their old friends. "Old friends" is the key. While Gemini have a million friends, when they introduce you to the people they knew from back when-whether it's kindergarten or college-it means that they're seeing you as someone who will also have longevity status in their lives.
- They stay in-with you. When a Gemini stays overnight, it's a big deal. Gemini like to recharge solo, so choosing to sleep with someone else is a sign that their walls are coming down. It's the same if they decide to have a low-key Friday night on your couch instead of their own-this is a sign that they see you as someone close to them.
Gemini Relationship Red Flags
Mercurial Gemini aren't shy about sharing when they're having a down day with someone they trust, so if everything is always fine, or if they say they're happy when you're pretty sure they're not, it's a sign that they may be edging you out of their inner emotional circle. Gemini are naturally flirtatious and don't hide that element from the person they love-so if they suddenly seem buttoned-up around other people, doling out handshakes instead of hugs, it could be a sign that something is going on.
How Gemini Deals With a Broken Heart
Get that Spotify breakup playlist ready on repeat, because Gemini loves getting over their emotions with art. They'll read books, watch movies, listen to music, and probably write some poetry as well. Gemini will likely try to hop back on the horse and may flirt right away, but it'll take a while for them to let someone else get close to them. They truly believe in mourning a relationship and will be very cautious about entering something new.