2021/10/21 Where am I going wrong? To ask that question to someone usually requires us to be willing to hear an honest answer. It also helps if we ask such a question from someone who is able to offer an unbiased and detached viewpoint on what we might improve. It appears such a person exists in your world now. Theres much you can gain by asking the question honestly and the honest answer you receive in return looks set to be both helpful and enlightening.